These are just a small sampling of the resources available. I apologize for the inconsistency of the formatting of these links. I hope that you will find them helpful.
TRANSGENDER & TRANSSEXUAL COMMUNITY RESOURCES
The LGBT Community Center Gender Identity Project http://www.gaycenter.org/gip
Laura's Playground: http://www.lauras-playground.com/cd.htm
TS Roadmap http://www.tsroadmap.com/index.html
Trans Solidarity http://transsolidarity.org/
New York Association for Gender Rights Advocacy (NYAGRA) http://www.nyagra.com/
My Husband Betty http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/
CROSSDRESSERS' RESOURCES
Crossdressers International - http://www.cdinyc.org
Society for the Second Self - http://www.tri-ess.org/
POLYAMORY AND OPEN RELATIONSHIPS
Poly-NYC - www.poly-nyc.com/
Tristatepoly - http://www.tristatepoly.org/
Loving More - http://www.lovemore.com/